Top 6 Secrets of Natural Flirts
They love themselves:
You need to be convinced of your potential to charm before you cast
those spells. In other words, you need to find yourself sexy —
physically and otherwise. Without putting on an act, that is. Put
yourself in your target’s shoes to gauge the effectiveness of your
approach. Say no to cheesy pick-up lines all the way.
They dress smart: Natural flirts are comfortable in their skin, and their second skin. They usually steer clear of the so-called latest trends making headlines in fashion mags. They wear clothes that suit their bodies and flatter their personalities. This is what makes them seem so at ease all the time.
They dress smart: Natural flirts are comfortable in their skin, and their second skin. They usually steer clear of the so-called latest trends making headlines in fashion mags. They wear clothes that suit their bodies and flatter their personalities. This is what makes them seem so at ease all the time.
They listen: Flirting is
not primarily about yourself. It’s about making the other person feel
like a God/Goddess, even as you convince them you’re the next best thing
since sliced bread. Good listening skills and a couple of sincere
compliments can be a lethal combo.
They aren’t needy: Being needy and persistent can be a people repellent. Natural flirts are usually self-sufficient. Even if you feel your techniques have been working like magic, hold on to that urge to cling and mark your territory. Flirting must be commitment-free.
They aren’t needy: Being needy and persistent can be a people repellent. Natural flirts are usually self-sufficient. Even if you feel your techniques have been working like magic, hold on to that urge to cling and mark your territory. Flirting must be commitment-free.
They enjoy the game:
Whether you’re indulging in some harmless, “healthy” flirting or
turning on the charm with a vengeance for X reason, you need to derive
basic pleasure out of the act. It’s flirting for the sake of flirting,
for a shared feel-good factor.
They draw the line: Natural flirts know when and where to stop. They will not lead someone on unnecessarily or give them the wrong idea about their real feelings and cause heartache or heartbreak, neither will they come on too strong and make you want to run for your dear life. Consciously nor not, they set limits for themselves, and follow them.
They draw the line: Natural flirts know when and where to stop. They will not lead someone on unnecessarily or give them the wrong idea about their real feelings and cause heartache or heartbreak, neither will they come on too strong and make you want to run for your dear life. Consciously nor not, they set limits for themselves, and follow them.
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